I hope you all had a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. What do you want to change this year? I want to first say THANK YOU to all of my supporters and readers, whether you agree or not, you still support common sense and that speaks wonders for you.
There are a million different titles for these types of women, hell, I was at one time a Ratchet, not because I didn't take care of my kids, but because I had multiple children by different women earlier in my life. Now married, I feel like I can give a little advice on situations like this. I was almost upset at the disrespectful comments I saw, lol. They hated my guts for saying real shit... What I'm going to do today is show you guys some comments and then re-comment. Before I do any of that however, I want to quote a few of my lines.
"As a man with multiple children, 5 to be exact, I realized that there are significant differences in the companies I’ve kept in my past. With 5 children by four mothers it may seem as though I’m the ratchet, and who knows, I’m pretty sure I may have been, but as I got older and more mature I noticed the differences in the mothers and I didn’t have to concentrate on myself anymore, just my actions."
"There needs to be more real men who step up as fathers, but there ALSO needs to be more Spartan Mothers who can co-parent without hostility. It would put less stress on these children out there and give them the real opportunity to spend time with their fathers without attitude and constant bickering."
Now this is the type of comment I love, a positive and a negative, but put in a way that all people should understand and think about. I also agree that parents should be able to put the feelings aside for greater mission. I believe one of the main points of the post was to let people know this. Coming from a fathers POV, we seem to classify mothers by their attitudes. When a father goes through what I explained in the post, its focus is on that type of mother that wants beef and setbacks in the father-child relationship. In situations like that, for some strange reason, It's never the womens fault, it's always something the father did or didn't do. I don't agree with that.
The "ethnic" attributes of one of my childrens mom was just adding to the story. Nothing ignorant or disrespectful.
Now this one... WOW. First off, let's say I was rich, and athlete or movie star, which I'm not. They have 5, 6 or even 7 kids with multiple women, however more people are prone to listen to a man with more children that is in the bright lights. Social media or whatever. I'm my own anti-thesis, but I'm the man taking countless steps to making a better future for ALL my children... That comment was bullshit, why? Because your past is knowledge... You take what you have been through in the past to inform others of what they don't need to do. It also shows you what you should and should not do in the future.
Closing, I NEVER EVER said I was the perfect father, however, I am the perfect man to give advice about becoming as close to perfect as possible. I exposed myself for the readers to show them that it's a two way street. If niggas ain't shit, most definitely bitches ain't shit. If you were insulted by the post, read it again. For those that liked or respected the post, thank you and continue to support.